
Now as Women and Moms, we all know the best gifts are not the material ones. Though they are nice and I would
Never,
Ever refuse one (tee-hee), material 'things' come and go.
As a Mom of 2 boys, I have learned to always be prepared for the unexpected. That's just the way life is. Holidays can be a real challenge for most parents~traditions,expectations,etc. There is a whole new twist thrown in when there is a special needs child in the mix.
So after being a mom for 22 years, I finally am getting 'it'. I do have a fantastic husband who makes every effort to make "my day" as calm, fun, easy as he can. So Saturday, Steven and I went to
"Bonefish Grill" for an early dinner. I had wanted to go there for a while, and was not disappointed. We got a table immediately, which was perfect timing at about 5:30pm.
Our waiter, Kevin was fantastic~ knowledgeable and interested. The meal was absolutely delicious, the wine was wonderful and I now have a new favorite white wine~ Martin Codax Albarino (I wrote it down~lol!)
Sunday morning Steven and I went to church. It was a lovely mass and the priest honored all the Mothers there with a special prayer. Chris goes to church with his best friend, John and his family. They live 2 doors down from us and have been such a blessing to Chris and to us, as a family. While this may seem a bit unusual, this is very important for Chris to have some independence from us. He loves getting dressed up (always has) and going to church.
When we got home, I read the beautiful card Steven had given me~~of course there were some tears there. Chris came home from church and went to his room. Michael was at work. Quiet, calm afternoon.
Fast forward a few hours....Michael purchased a movie for he and I to watch, "The Pianist". We started watching the movie about 10:30 and I was in heaven, spending time with my first-born child! I would have watched just about anything, because the 'gift' was the time spent together. Looking at my baby stretched out across the bed as he watched the movie. He loves movies,is a history buff, taken 4 years of German so this was a great mix.

~~Michael holding Bella a couple of weeks ago~~
This morning, another 'gift' was given to me. Chris had left a handmade card at my place at the kitchen table. All the things I have wanted to hear on Mother's Day or any day....My gifts are priceless.
